You can't focus. You can't sleep. You can't eat, stand still, get your mind around what's happening, and you want to stay in bed. You're consumed with negative thoughts and worry about the future and your finances. You might have lost 20lbs (like I did) from all the stress and anxiety.
So often we ask for help and when it comes we don't take it. If you're starting to realize that you don't have the solution to slow it all down, you recognize that you need a helping hand and someone to point you in the right direction. You asked the universe for help...that's why you're here.